Welcome to Our Nashville Boudoir Blog
Welcome to Holly Douglas & Co, where timeless elegance meets the art of empowerment. We are not just a boudoir studio; we are a sanctuary of self-expression and self-love, dedicated to helping you discover and embrace your inner beauty.
At HDCO in Nashville, Tennessee, we believe that every individual possesses a unique, captivating essence that deserves to be celebrated. Our mission is to create an empowering and transformative experience through the art of boudoir photography. We understand that the journey towards self-confidence and self-acceptance can be profound, and we are here to guide you through it.
Couples Boudoir Vs Erotic Boudoir Photography
Holly Douglas & Co. dives into the discussion of couples boudoir vs erotic boudoir photography and what makes each of these sessions unique.
Couples Boudoir Vs Erotic Boudoir Photography
We've been getting a lot of buzz lately on Holly Douglas & Co.’s TikTok and Instagram accounts about our couples boudoir photoshoots, and with all the attention comes some intriguing questions. We figured it's the perfect time to dive into the discussion of couples boudoir vs erotic boudoir photography and what makes each of these sessions unique. (Ooh la la! Did it just get a little hot in here?)
Couples Boudoir: Intimacy Without Crossing Boundaries
Our couples boudoir sessions are all about capturing the chemistry, love, and connection between partners in a tasteful and artistic way. Rather than simply “posing” the two of you together, which could potentially look awkward in photographs, we encourage more of an authentic interaction between you and your partner where some of the spicier activities are implied rather than explicit. Some of the most common questions we've been getting include:
"What happens if A man becomes 'excited' during a couple's boudoir session?"
Hey, it happens! Men are human, after all, and honestly, it should be taken as a compliment. The key is to stay professional and focus on the artistic aspect of the shoot. We use poses that keep everything tasteful and suggestive without crossing into explicit territory. However, if an issue does happen to “pop up” during the photoshoot (see what we did there?), that’s what breaks are for. It’s really no big deal, though.
"How spicy do these couples' photoshoots get?"
Couples’ boudoir poses can get pretty steamy, but it's all about the illusion. For example, if a woman is posed as if she's pleasuring herself, her hand is actually grabbing underneath her thigh. Or, if it appears that one partner is giving the other oral pleasure, they’re really just tilting their head downward. It's all about the boudoir photographer creating the suggestive look of the photos through the use of poses, lighting, and angles without the clients actually performing the explicit acts.
"My partner and I are a little freaky and we'd have a hard time controlling ourselves."
We hear you! But rest assured, our couples boudoir sessions are designed to stay within certain boundaries. The idea is to tease and suggest, not to engage in real acts. This helps keep the session comfortable and focused on the art of capturing your connection. However, with that being said, if you and your partner prefer to let your little freak flags fly, that’s where our erotic boudoir photoshoots come in.
Erotic Boudoir: A Step Beyond
Now, for those of you who are curious about our erotic boudoir sessions, let's talk about what sets them apart. These sessions are a step beyond our couples boudoir photoshoots, designed for those who want to explore and capture their intimacy in a more explicit, yet still tasteful, manner.
Real Acts, Real Moments: Unlike couples boudoir, erotic boudoir photography doesn't rely on implied poses. The activities and poses are real, though always conducted in a respectful and artistic way. The photographer, Holly Douglas, our Nashville boudoir studio’s talented owner who specializes in couples boudoir and erotic photography, offers guidance throughout the photoshoot, ensuring that the essence of the moment is beautifully captured.
Boundaries and Comfort: Before any erotic boudoir session, Holly Douglas requires an in-depth discussion with the clients. This conversation covers boundaries, comfort levels, and the specifics of the shoot to ensure everyone is on the same page. It is also important to note that these sessions are only booked with past clients whom Holly has photographed before, to ensure a level of trust and comfort.
Exclusive and Premium: Erotic boudoir sessions are a specialized service, requiring a significant amount of time, skill, and trust. As such, they come at a premium price point, reflecting the unique and intimate nature of the experience.
Benefits of Each Boudoir Session Type
Couples Boudoir Sessions
Celebration of Love: These sessions are perfect for celebrating anniversaries, milestones, or just capturing the love you share.
Building Confidence: There's something incredibly empowering about seeing yourself and your partner in such a beautiful light.
Creating Memories: You'll have stunning images that you can cherish for years to come.
Erotic Boudoir Sessions
Deepening Intimacy: These sessions offer a way to explore and capture your connection on a deeper, more intimate level.
Unique Art: The photos from an erotic boudoir session are a one-of-a-kind piece of art, capturing your love and passion in a way that's uniquely yours.
Exclusive Experience: The whole process, from the initial conversation to the final product, is designed to be an exclusive, intimate experience.
Conclusion
Both couple’s boudoir sessions and erotic boudoir sessions offer a unique way to celebrate your love and connection. Whether you're looking for something suggestive and playful or something more explicit and intimate, Holly Douglas and Company are here to help you capture those moments beautifully and artistically.
Curious to learn more or book a session? Don't hesitate to reach out. We're here to make your vision come to life!
5 Questions You May Be Afraid to Ask Your Boudoir Photographer
You may have a handful of questions that you’d like to ask your boudoir photographer that are just a little on the embarrassing side. So, allow us to help you out…
5 Questions You May Be Afraid to Ask Your Boudoir Photographer
If you've recently booked a boudoir photoshoot at Holly Douglas & Co.'s luxury boudoir photography studio in Nashville, TN, then you've probably already thought of some questions to ask your boudoir photographer. That is so important, so good for you! However, you may also have a handful of questions that you'd like to ask before the photoshoot, but they're just a little embarrassing. Therefore, in today’s blog, we thought we'd help you out by preemptively answering five questions you may be afraid to ask your boudoir photographer.
What if I'm on my period the day of my boudoir session?
Surprisingly, women often do not think about asking their boudoir photographer this particular question. Then, just days before the photoshoot, you realize you're about to start your period! (It never fails, right?) Suddenly, you're full of questions, like, "What if my cramps are killing me? Can the photographer edit out bloating and breakouts? What if my tampon string shows? What if I accidentally stain the sheets or furniture at the boudoir studio?!? Eeek! I'd die!"
Believe it or not, it's actually quite common for women to be on their periods during their boudoir sessions. Sure, it's a bit of a bummer for you because you'd obviously rather NOT be on your period. However, there is absolutely no need to reschedule your session. Being on your period will not negatively affect your boudoir photos in any way!
To fully answer this question, though, we'd like to offer the following:
Our Tips and Advice About Having Your Period on the Day of Your Boudoir Session
We know this is rather obvious, but you should plan to wear a tampon during your boudoir session. It's also a good idea to change into a fresh one at the start of the photoshoot. If you are worried about leakage at any point, your photographer will be more than happy to pause the session for a bathroom break. Remember, Holly Douglas & Co. are all female boudoir photographers, so there's no need to feel embarrassed. We totally empathize!
You may want to take a mild pain reliever, such as ibuprofen or Midol, the morning of your boudoir session. This can help ease any menstrual cramping during your photoshoot. However, please do NOT take anything stronger, such as prescribed muscle relaxers, before your session!
There's no need to worry if you have a small breakout or feel bloated on the day of your shoot. All of your purchased images will be professionally retouched. So, minor period-related issues will not be apparent in your fully edited boudoir photos.
Please do not stress about whether or not your tampon string will show during the photoshoot. Listen, it happens. Your boudoir photographer is NOT going to find it shocking or "gross" if she notices a tampon string. She will either bring it to your attention so you can make an adjustment, or it can be edited out in post. It's honestly not a big deal, so no worries!
Is it better for me to wax or shave "down there" before my boudoir session?
This may be a question you've felt shy about asking your boudoir photographer, but you may also want our "expert" opinion. Truthfully, though, we do not have a preference when it comes to waxing vs. shaving your bikini area. Either will do the job just fine! However, if you typically wax, we recommend that you do it 3-5 days prior to your boudoir session, just in case you experience any irritation or redness. (We recommend Jessica Silva at Wax Nashville!)
If you prefer shaving, try to do so either the night before or the morning of your boudoir session appointment.
Our Tips and Advice for Preventing Bumps or Ingrown Hairs from Shaving:
Prep the skin before shaving your bikini line by exfoliating with a wet washcloth or a scrub to remove any dead skin cells, which allows the razor blade to get closer to the skin.
Use a good-quality shaving gel with moisturizing ingredients, like shea butter, olive oil, or coconut oil. Doing this will prevent the blade from abrading the skin and causing irritation.
Shave in the direction of hair growth, not against it.
Moisturize immediately after shaving and apply a calming serum if necessary, such as tea tree oil, which can help calm razor burn.
What if I am physically unable to do some of these boudoir poses?
You should not be afraid to ask your boudoir photographer about posing limitations. It's unrealistic to expect ALL women to be able to pose in the same way, because all bodies are different. Therefore, we promise your boudoir photographer is not going to be disappointed if you are physically unable to do a certain pose. In fact, we tailor all of our boudoir sessions specifically to each woman we photograph. So, if we ask you to get into a pose and you physically cannot do it, no worries! We have a TON of other sexy boudoir poses you can try.
Exactly how risqué will my boudoir photos be?
Of all the questions to ask your boudoir photographer, you should definitely NOT be afraid to ask this one! Whenever we get this inquiry, it usually means that either the client doesn't want her boudoir photos to look "too sexual," or she wants to do some VERY provocative boudoir poses. Those are obviously two very different expectations! This is why it is important to ask your boudoir photographer this question before you book your session.
If you are a little more reserved, you might be worried about getting naked or posing in ways that make you feel uncomfortable. While we are definitely here to help push you outside of your comfort zone a little, we are always very respectful of our clients' comfort LIMITS. So, please do not hesitate to tell your boudoir photographer if you prefer more modest boudoir poses.
On the other hand, if you want a much more risqué photoshoot, this should also be discussed before booking the session, as there are limits to what we can do within the scope of boudoir photography. Erotica, however, is a completely separate genre of photography that might be more suitable for your needs. The difference between boudoir photography and erotic photography is that boudoir poses are usually more implied or suggestive rather than explicit in their approach to nudity and sexuality. Therefore, if you want explicit photos that include crotch shots and sex toys, for example, that would be considered erotica.
Holly Douglas & Co. is proud to offer erotic photography services; however, these sessions require a special consultation and are priced differently than a typical boudoir photoshoot. Please contact us for more details if this type of photoshoot interests you.
I have never liked any photos of myself. What if I don't like my boudoir photos and I offend my boudoir photographer?
This is something you definitely do not need to worry about. In fact, whenever a woman tells us that she has never liked photos of herself, our only thought is, "Challenge accepted!"
We are confident you're going to love your boudoir images because, well, we are excellent at what we do! (What can we say?) Our experienced female boudoir photographers are experts at knowing the best lighting, angles, and boudoir poses that are going to be the most flattering for YOUR body type. Our number one goal is for you to look your absolute best in your boudoir photos!
Furthermore, a boudoir photoshoot is actually a LOT more fun than many women expect when they first book their sessions! So, no need to worry about looking scared or tense in your photos. The majority of women arrive at our studios feeling nervous about what they're about to do. However, as you're being pampered with hair and makeup and have the opportunity to chat with your photographer, those nerves will start to subside. Then, as soon as you slip into that first boudoir outfit, you'll be surprised by how sexy you actually start to feel. And that's when the fun REALLY begins!
During the photoshoot, you can expect to hear good music pumping, lots of laughing, and your boudoir photographer will be your personal hype girl the entire time! In other words, it's hard to stay nervous when you're experiencing such an uplifting confidence boost during your photoshoot!
Conclusion
Now that we've answered five questions you may have been afraid to ask your boudoir photographer, we hope you're feeling even more excited about your upcoming boudoir session! Furthermore, you really shouldn't be afraid to ask your boudoir photographer ANY questions. We want you to feel 100% comfortable and know exactly what to expect from your boudoir experience with Holly Douglas & Co. in Nashville, Tennessee. So, please…ask away!