Miss K’s Boudoir Testimonial | Finding Confidence After Divorce
Miss K’s Boudoir Testimonial
Finding Confidence After Divorce
We at Holly Douglas & Co. believe that EVERY woman should experience a boudoir photoshoot at least once in her lifetime. We love empowering women and boosting their self-confidence through the art of boudoir photography! Of course, people expect to hear that from us, the boudoir photographers, because we do this for a living. Boudoir testimonials written by our past clients who have actually experienced a boudoir session, on the other hand, are the most convincing! For this reason, Holly Douglas & Co. proudly features a new boudoir experience testimonial blog each week.
This week's boudoir experience testimonial comes from the gorgeous Miss K., who was photographed at our luxury boudoir studio in downtown Nashville, Tennessee!
Tell us about yourself.
I'm 43, divorced with two adult kids (27, 23). I have a 3-year-old dachshund named Georgia. I love concerts and music of all kinds. The beach is my happy place and where I feel the most relaxed. I love to laugh and spend time with friends. Just your average girl!
How did you hear about Holly Douglas Boudoir?
I honestly cannot remember how I found Holly’s private group on Facebook.
Why did you choose Holly Douglas Boudoir for your session?
I love all the pictures that she's posted and all the reviews/testimonies have been fantastic!
What made you decide to take the leap of faith and do a boudoir session?
I went through a bad divorce a few years ago. The relationship was over years before that but I had to come to terms with it being over. Over the last couple of years, I've done therapy and processed everything I went through. During that time, I've been learning to love myself, inside and out, and to be confident in the person I am. But I wanted to see myself through the eyes (and camera) of a stranger. Someone who wasn't saying nice things about me because they were friends and family or someone who was saying anything to break me as a person. But to see me just as I am. To see through what the “world” considers beautiful and sexy.
Were you nervous about the shoot beforehand? If so, what were you most nervous about?
It was more of a nervous excitement! I like being in the “know”. So I was nervous about not knowing what I should expect or how things would turn out. But I was determined to get the full experience so I let go of control and let Holly make all the decisions - how my hair and makeup would look, the best choices in what to wear, all of it!
Did you become more comfortable after the session started? If so, what helped to relax your nerves?
Holly is in her element. She made me feel comfortable and at ease. She was professional but still made me feel like I was there with someone I'd known for years.
What was your favorite part of the experience and why?
My favorite part was Holly showing me a picture had just taken from the camera. No filter, no editing…it was just me what what she saw. And at that moment I wanted to cry. Because what I saw on that camera was a beautiful woman who was confident, sexy and comfortable in her own skin! My goal for the shoot had come to fruition.
How did you feel during your session?
I was 100% at ease and loved all of it. I can't remember the last time I took a few days by myself, for myself!
Describe how you felt when you saw your images for the first time.
Oh, my brain was on overload! I was trying to capture every moment and detail during the slideshow. It was like an out of body experience. “I know that's me on the screen but how can that be me?” I will say I did have moments looking at some pictures and thinking I didn't want them because of how my stomach or butt looked. Holly could see the fear and anxiety in the face. She looked at me and said, “Don't! Don't delete that picture. You don't see what I see when I look at it.” And she was right, I didn't see what she saw and I may not for some time. But I needed that picture because one day, I'll appreciate It and remember where I was at that time in my life.
How has your relationship with your body changed since your session?
I had come to embrace my body leading up to my shoot but capturing those moments and images has boosted that embrace even more!
What would you say to people who say they can't do a boudoir session because they are too shy, nervous, etc?
I promise you that you will be supported in every way you need. It's like walking into this amazing bubble of safety. It may seem like a mountain but close your eyes and jump. The landing is sweet!
Anything else you'd like to add?
Get the bigger package/session! I thought going into the session the hardest part was going to be arching my back or holding some contorted pose. But honestly, the hardest part was choosing which pictures I loved the most and the ones I could be okay with deleting. I would have never been able to only choose 35 pictures!
Thank you for this boudoir experience testimonial, Miss K.!
